Andrea Lynn Piazza

The conditioning check

Two short worksheets for after a controlling relationship: one for the rules you're still following, and one for trusting your own judgment again.

How it works1. Pick either part. You don't have to do both.2. Answer in a few words. Skip anything that feels like too much.3. Print it or save it as a PDF if you want to keep it somewhere private.Nothing you type is saved or sent. If someone checks your devices, use a private window and close it when you're done.

Part 1: The rules I'm still following

Part 2: Trusting myself again

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